Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a mental health condition that can be very difficult to live with if left untreated. We use evidence-based therapies to relieve OCD symptoms and help you to regain control and enjoyment of your life.
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What is OCD?
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a mental health condition characterised by persistent thoughts that drive unwanted mental acts and physical behaviours. OCD thoughts and their associated repetitive behaviour rituals can be very time-consuming and disruptive, creating a huge negative impact on your mental health and quality of life.
The two core symptoms of OCD are:
Obsessions: Unwelcome thoughts, unpleasant mental images, frightening impulses, and/or irrational fears that cause significant distress. OCD obsessions typically intrude at inopportune times, are very difficult to ignore, and keep coming back.
Compulsions: Compulsive, repetitive behaviours that provide temporary respite from the distressing intrusive thoughts. OCD compulsions often become heavily ritualised and time-consuming, and can significantly interfere with daily life.
If you have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, you will usually experience both obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviours. However, some people experience only one of these two major symptoms.
OCD left untreated can lead to the development of other forms of mental illness, so it's vital to seek help from an OCD specialist as soon as possible. Professional treatment can help you to reduce or eliminate your symptoms and enjoy a happier, healthier lifestyle.
What Are Common OCD Symptoms?
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder does not manifest in the same way for every individual. However, people with OCD often experience similar unwanted thoughts and/or common compulsions.
Fear of being dirty or contaminated
Fear of something terrible happening to loved ones
Fear of causing something terrible to happen yourself
Distressing sexual or religious thoughts
Desire to self-harm or harm others
Excessive handwashing and cleanliness
Repeatedly checking on things (e.g. door locked, oven turned off)
Arranging things to be perfectly ordered or symmetrical
Ritualistic counting (often preoccupied with certain numbers)
Unwillingness to throw things away (hoarding)
What Is It Like to Have OCD?
People may go to a counselling session for many different reasons. Often, it’s to get help in overcoming a specific issue or set of issues that is negatively impacting their quality of life. Some common examples include:
Distressing thoughts that won’t go away
Unhealthy behaviours (e.g. smoking, gambling)
A fear or phobia (e.g. spiders, flying)
Going through a divorce or separation
Difficulty relaxing and/or sleeping
Loss or illness of a loved one
High levels of stress, worry, and/or anger
Persistent feelings of sadness
In other cases, a person may be motivated to pursue self-growth, address other current or future concerns, or simply want professional advice on how to improve their overall mental health – similar to someone hiring a personal trainer in order to improve their overall physical health.
Your individual counselling experience may also encompass career counselling, life coaching, and other aspects of personal growth and emotional well-being.
You may have heard the term "OCD" used to refer to people who are very clean, neat, or orderly. However, OCD is not simply a desire for things to be tidy, or arranged in a certain way, or performed in a particular order. It is a debilitating condition that can cause immense distress, and can severely interfere with your ability to function at work, school, or home.
For example, someone with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder might be bothered by unwanted thoughts about germs. They may think that their hands become exposed to germs each time they touch a "contaminated" object. To reduce anxiety caused by this germs fear, they will engage in the compulsive behaviour of washing their hands far more than is normal or necessary - even to the point of scrubbing their skin raw. But the relief never lasts, and before long, the cleaning rituals need to be enacted again.
Often, people who have OCD recognise that their intrusive thoughts and repetitive behaviours are abnormal, irrational, or excessive. They may suspect that what they are experiencing is a mental illness, even if they have not yet received an OCD diagnosis.
What Causes OCD?
The exact causes of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder are not yet known. However, there are several known risk factors that increase the likelihood of someone developing OCD.
Genetic predisposition may play a role in whether someone will develop Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Women are three times more likely to develop OCD than men. You are also much more likely to be diagnosed with OCD if one of your immediate family members has it. According to one study review, the likelihood of inheriting OCD from a parent with the same condition may be as high as 50%.
People with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder often have other mental health conditions. According to a large-scale US survey, 90% of respondents with OCD also had another mental illness such as severe depression, bipolar, or anxiety. However, because depression usually occurs after OCD has already developed, this diagnosis may result from the psychological difficulties of living with OCD.
You may be at higher risk of developing Obsessive Compulsive Disorder if you experienced interpersonal traumatic events during childhood, such as abuse or neglect, overly strict or otherwise dysfunctional parenting, or your parents going through a messy divorce. Non-interpersonal traumatic events, such as surviving a car accident, are not thought to increase risk.
A child or young teen may develop Obsessive Compulsive Disorder shortly after contracting a streptococcal infection (strep throat). This diagnosis is called Pediatric Autoimmune Neuropsychiatric Disorders Associated with Streptococcus, or PANDAS for short. As most kids contract streptococcal infections and make full recoveries, the odds of PANDAS occurring are very low.
Psychological Treatment for OCD
There are several types of therapy with high success rates for managing or even overcoming Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Some people respond better to certain therapies than others. Your therapist will work with you to tailor a programme of treatment to your specific situation and needs
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is a conversational form of therapy that identifies negative thoughts and feelings that lead to unhealthy behaviours. By working to adjust the thoughts and feelings that trigger obsessions and compulsions, CBT can transform harmful mental patterns and behaviours into healthy ones. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy is well regarded by mental health professionals as an effective way to treat OCD.
Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a newer type of psychotherapy that was originally developed for healing PTSD. It has since also become known as an effective treatment for other mental illnesses, including OCD. EMDR helps you to reprocess the habitual thoughts and feelings that occur when you have an obsessive or compulsive reaction, thereby reducing your psychological distress.
Another behavioural therapy with high treatment efficacy for OCD is Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), also known as Aversion Conditioning. ERP involves repeated and prolonged exposure to situations that typically cause you distress. Starting with exposure to your least anxiety-provoking situation, the therapy then escalates to more challenging exposure tasks as your comfort levels increase.
In some cases, medication increases treatment efficacy. Drug treatment with selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) can help to relieve the symptoms of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, in conjunction with behaviour therapy. If necessary, your therapist can work with your family doctor to arrange a prescription for you.
However, SSRIs tend to provide only temporary relief, which ends as soon as you stop taking the medication. They can also have unpleasant side effects, such as lethargy, weight gain, agitation, and insomnia. If you are medicating as part of OCD treatment, the best approach is to take a short-term course of drugs to relieve the worst immediate symptoms, while engaging in psychological treatment to tackle the root causes of your condition and provide long-term relief.
Dr. Glenn Graves holds a Ph.D. in Psychology with a specialisation in Creativity and Existential-Humanistic Integrative Psychotherapy. His early career was shaped by his Master’s Degree in Psychology and Bachelor of Arts in Human Development, which focused on healing approaches for vulnerable groups in transition and trauma victims. This foundation led to a career dedicated to trauma healing, crisis intervention, and personal transformation. Glenn is also certified in Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR), having conducted nearly 20,000 sessions, as well as in Ericksonian Psychotherapy and Hypnosis, NOVA crisis response, and is an accredited facilitator for the FOCCUS marriage preparation programme.
Dr. Glenn Graves holds a Ph.D. in Psychology with a specialisation in Creativity and Existential-Humanistic Integrative Psychotherapy. His early career was shaped by his Master’s Degree in Psychology and Bachelor of Arts in Human Development, which focused on healing approaches for vulnerable groups in transition and trauma victims. This foundation led to a career dedicated to trauma healing, crisis intervention, and personal transformation. Glenn is also certified in Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR), having conducted nearly 20,000 sessions, as well as in Ericksonian Psychotherapy and Hypnosis, NOVA crisis response, and is an accredited facilitator for the FOCCUS marriage preparation programme.
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Dr Freya has worked as a psychologist in Singapore for more than four years. She is from England and offers therapy online in English. She tailors each session to the needs of her client, drawing on tools from different psychological disciplines including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, the humanistic approach, mindfulness-based therapy, Gestalt therapy and Positive Psychology.
Dr Freya has worked as a psychologist in Singapore for more than four years. She is from England and offers therapy online in English. She tailors each session to the needs of her client, drawing on tools from different psychological disciplines including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, the humanistic approach, mindfulness-based therapy, Gestalt therapy and Positive Psychology.
With her warm personality and gentle demeanour, Esther takes on a collaborative journey with her clients to explore their concerns and help them find peace, meaning, or resolution in their personal and professional lives.
With her warm personality and gentle demeanour, Esther takes on a collaborative journey with her clients to explore their concerns and help them find peace, meaning, or resolution in their personal and professional lives.
Areas of focus
PsychotherapyCognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)EMDRAnxietyDepressionStress ManagementCompulsive BehavioursCompulsive Sexual BehaviourOCDPTSDFamily MattersCouples and Relationships issuesMental HealthMood DisordersGrief & LossCareer related issuesAnxiety & other mood disordersCareer CounsellingCompulsionLGBTQIA+ Affirming TherapyNeurodivergent Affirming Thera…Obsessive Compulsive Disorders…Parenting IssuesPersonality Disorders (Borderl…
Having an ongoing interest in the intertwined workings of the mind and body, Varian is decidedly enthusiastic about counselling and all things psychology-related. Adopting a client-centred humanistic approach as the driving form of his counselling style, he has been assisting clients in managing their behaviours in one-to-one and group sessions since 2013. He began his counselling journey by being introduced to behavioural compulsions and impulse control difficulties, which also happen to be his areas of speciality. He has facilitated all-male support groups for compulsive sexual behaviour disorder, and behaviour modification for problematic sexual behaviour, in both private and governmental settings. In these two environments, Varian worked with clients on their psychoeducation and to unlearn the shame and guilt surrounding compulsion. While he provides multiple tools to guide clients onto their paths of recovery, he draws upon several other techniques that are beneficial to his clients; focusing strongly on emotions while involving some cognitive behavioural, dialectical behavioural, and somatic approaches.
Having an ongoing interest in the intertwined workings of the mind and body, Varian is decidedly enthusiastic about counselling and all things psychology-related. Adopting a client-centred humanistic approach as the driving form of his counselling style, he has been assisting clients in managing their behaviours in one-to-one and group sessions since 2013. He began his counselling journey by being introduced to behavioural compulsions and impulse control difficulties, which also happen to be his areas of speciality. He has facilitated all-male support groups for compulsive sexual behaviour disorder, and behaviour modification for problematic sexual behaviour, in both private and governmental settings. In these two environments, Varian worked with clients on their psychoeducation and to unlearn the shame and guilt surrounding compulsion. While he provides multiple tools to guide clients onto their paths of recovery, he draws upon several other techniques that are beneficial to his clients; focusing strongly on emotions while involving some cognitive behavioural, dialectical behavioural, and somatic approaches.
Areas of focus
PsychotherapyCognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)EMDRAnxietyDepressionStress ManagementAnger ManagementCompulsive BehavioursAlcohol-Related ConcernsCompulsive Sexual BehaviourOCDPTSDCouples and Relationships issuesMental HealthAnxiety ManagementCompulsions / Compulsive Behav…Problematic Sexual BehaviourCouples CounsellingTrauma RecoveryEmotional Resiliency Counselli…
Lili is originally from the UK and is exceptionally warm, approachable and committed in her working style with clients. She understands that talking about our deepest fears and challenges can be overwhelming, so she places a huge emphasis on creating a safe, comfortable space for her clients, bringing a healthy sprinkling of humour and straight talking to the proceedings.
Lili is originally from the UK and is exceptionally warm, approachable and committed in her working style with clients. She understands that talking about our deepest fears and challenges can be overwhelming, so she places a huge emphasis on creating a safe, comfortable space for her clients, bringing a healthy sprinkling of humour and straight talking to the proceedings.